Quoting lostlove: Or more significantly if h weren't treating me like a mother or sister I wouldn't notice other men as much as I do.
LL, I may have missed this in some of your previous posts or threads, but have the two of you ever talked about this before? yes! before I started my emt class I specifically let h know that if things continue the way they are I will be in danger...that when I leave this house to go to school or work there will be men that want to talk to me, spend time with me, express interest in me and what am I to do say oh no I cannot I must remain faithful to the guy at home who doesn't want to spend time with me or be with me. obviously that was understood. NOT!
I don't think that this is a very uncommon thing in couples, but I'm not sure how much this gets talked about between partners. trust me I've talked about it plenty...h just doesn't get it...and ya'd think that after his little exertion with a married woman who felt similar to me he'd know what can happen...perhaps he has to much faith in me.
Back to the "Passion Prevails" part of the Marriage Map. A place that needs to be revisited by all couples often. it just doesn't seem like h is interested....see I understand that passion does fizzle...that you have to at times work to keep it there...h I suppose is from the school of if it's there, it's there, if it aint it aint and you guessed it for some wacky reason it aint once again.
