Sandy,

Dropping the rope is a saying used around here where we tend to be connected in a way that every little thing said and done in some way affects us. When the rope is dropped we feel a sense of release almost like a burden has been lifted. It allows us to move forward in the direction we desire. The rollercoaster ride has calmed and does not have as many peaks and valleys. The other side is that your H will notice you have a different spring in your step, you react differently to his interaction.

He will notice and so will you.

Steve