Brian has some very wise things to say there. I know that CJ also said that he absolutely communicated his dissatisfactions with me...but I sure as hell didn't hear them as anything BUT minor dissatisfactions!!! Certainly not bomb-worthy stuff!!
But I also know that YOU HAVE laid it on the line for your H many times.
I think if you do as you've planned (and DO be careful of the attention of others, lest you repeat your H's pattern ), your H MAY just wake up at last.
Are you planning to tell him in any way? Or just start ignoring him?
Oh geez, I wish the guy had a clue and you didn't feel this fed up, but I AM curious as to how he's going to respond!
), your H MAY just wake up at last.
