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Was it weird/odd to see W's apartment?

In a way, yes. It feels so... alien. She's bought new furniture (after admonishing me for having done the same when I had to move out a year ago. The hypocrite.) And I don't like thinking about what's going to happen there when the boys are with me and she's "alone" -- I avoided the master bedroom for that reason. D*mn it.

I am still working with my L and (I assume) she's working with hers. Once we agree on a settlement and sign a Separation Agreement, I can guarantee W will burn rubber to the courthouse to file. Much as I want this tragedy behind me, I'm not interested in helping her speed things along. So I'm taking my time providing materials for her L, focusing my energies on more fruitful endeavors.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.