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[karen43]

Then why do any LBS's want their WASs back?

For me, the only reason would be my kids and my marriage vows, you know the "until death do us part".

But WASs have their own strengths and weaknesses.

Sure but I think a big thing is that WAS realize that we all have strengths and weaknesses or flaws and will accept the person and stay in the marriage anyway.

WASs are not evil, they are not better or worse than the people they get involved with. Remember, BOTH parties in an A are doing something they really shouldn't do. They are not victims of their A partners. And it is the WAS who is guilty of the deep betrayal of the LBS.

I agree they are both equally guilty but I've never loved OW like I did my H or had children with OW, so I feel free to trash! And this is probably horrible of me, but I do feel superior in morals and values and consideration of my children. I wouldn't have an affair when I was married with a married OP like they did in my sitch, and everytime H sees the kids now (we are still married) takes the OW along on their dates or whatever you call them. I think that's disgusting. So sorry, yeah I think I'm better!!! Karen