The Mambo Craze (13)

[pat44]

I am so sorry lodo...

take care,
AG

[RMG77739]

lodo,

I am so sorry for how things ended......... No matter how much times passes, these situations still drive a stake through my heart.... I wish there was something I could say..... Words fail at times like this....

You'll both be in my prayers....

Take Care,

RMG

[smith18]

Lodo -

What a tough day for you. I hope you take some time to think about your future as opposed to dwelling on the past right now. I know you felt that your W and you were soul mates and that was true in your heart. She just did not see it that way and sometimes you just have to let them go to find their own happiness.

I think you ended your marriage in a good way which should make it much easier to have a new beginning. Take your time and I am sure that you will find someone better.

I just started reading "Mars and Venus on a Date" and I think it might be worth your reading when you decide you are ready to enter the dating life again. There is some good stuff in it about relationships in general that is very enlightening.

[kat727]

I wish I had the words that I knew would make your pain go away. It seems to keep happening over and over again. You distance yourself and think you can get through this and then something triggers it all over again. It does get better, I promise. I wouldn't have believed that myself a mere 2 months ago, but it does. I am here if you want to talk. Hugs.

kat

[Sara]

What can anyone say? Her actions (the crying) say one thing, and she says another. From this vantage point, it doesn't make any sense.

[fightingirish]

No it doesn't make sense.. Im so sorry. I pray for a miracle for you.

[fig]

ugh

and

i am sorry

hugs to you lodo

[KarenMarieS]

It will be ok lodo, it will
I'm sorry for your hurt.

(( lodo ))

[lodo]

Thanks everyone.

At least it's in black and white now - no more grey. And I told her I wouldn't talk to her unless it was an emergency. That will help me.

Time does help. It doesn't heal everything, but it helps us become numb.

Hmm, that makes me sound like I'm a Pink Floyd song .... Maybe I am. Am I on the dark side of the moon? Do I wish you were here?

lodo

[Kalni]

Hey, you want share a drink with me? I'll give you a hug too. And maybe make you laugh with my English...

I am sorry. All this crying and hurt is so unfair. Unfair for you to see. It's like the last scene is there to remind you what it could have been. I am sorry.

You will be fine lodo. Not just numb. You will be healed. Dont doubt that. The heart is a magnificent organ. It becomes whole again even if it was broken in 100 pieces. You will see. The more we hurt the more love we are able to give in the future.

Take care,
hugs and kisses
Maria