Thank you for your kind words about me. I only hope I'll find someone else some day, that is of course dependent of whether or not I want another person in my life like that again. If I do want it and I do find it, I know I'll be a much better, stronger, more complete person this time around. This experience has been ultra painful, but not altoghter wasted as I'm growing better b/c of it.
It is sad that I'm the blame for all of the things that W perceives as being wrong in her life. She has a bad day. Blame RTL. She is tired, then it must be my fault. D is disobedient. Point the finger at me for not disciplining her correctly. D is sick, then I must have made her sleep outside all night in a tub of ice...and on, and on, and on.
Never any thought is given to the slightest possibility that I didn't have anything to do w/ whatever she's miffed about either. Nope. That thought just refuses to cross her mind.
So, I guess the simple solution is to look at RTL as the source of all your problems. It seems to work for my STBX, so why don't you all give it a try too?
Global warming? Al Gore forgot to mention me in his film as the main culprit. Dow Jones tanking? Yep, RTL again! Car wouldn't start? I pulled the wires. Seriously. Give it a try. Maybe my looney W is on to something here. Thereputic blame therapy.
My skin is tougher than a football right now, so I can take it if you all need a place to dump, I'm here for ya!
She is just nuts and I don't know what she'll do when I'm not around to kick anymore. Good thing she doesn't have a cat.