Well I spoke too soon...just when you thought it was safe to look at your texts!
So H had to go down South for CPR training and had to leave at about 4:30 this morning. So he called me at lunch and that when I told him we were going to the concert. He acted ok, but he said in a kinda snotty voice, "Have fun!" I had sent him a text saying that I would have gotten him a ticket too, but he had indicated that him going would cause drama in his life (mind you H was the one that encouraged me to take DS) and so I didn't. He then texts back that he also didn't want to spend the money and I sent back "yeah, that too. Maybe we can go to Metallica" the reply I get is "what EVER!" Huh? So I asked what that was for and I also FWD: what EVER! with WTF? The reply I get back is "FYS" I can only interpret it one way, so my reply was, "At least I wont catch anything that way".....
What is his problem? I just don't understand why he gets to be a total a$$ and feels perfectly justified in doing so. Well, hes not going to ruin my fun. He can have the life he has created for himself. I hope he enjoys it!
Last edited by Sugar and Spice; 09/16/0811:24 PM.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
What an Azz... take it from where it's coming from honey.. He's in no man's land.
Its the blindsides that hurt the most. Thanks Tal!
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
OMG - you mean the concert in Oakland December 20th? I'm SO GOING with one of my friends!!!!!!!!
No attention is a better behavioral modification tool!
(((Corey)))
Nope, Fresno on the 13th or LA. The concert was really fun and DS and I had a great time. Odd thing though....
There was a woman sitting two rows behind us that kept staring at me and at one point I caught her and she was talking to the person next to her and saying, "thats her, shes right there." She never broke eye contact with me while saying it, but I know it wasn't the troll. I suspect it may have been one of her sisters though. Whatever, I didn't let it ruin our time.
I haven't heard from H since last night. I called him after I picked up DD so DS could say goodnight and he hung up on me...childish. I'm going to take your advice to heart Michelle. Hes lucky I have been speaking to him, since he is the one that had created this huge mess, so if silence is what he wants, silence he will get!
Originally Posted By: lwb
I *think* it means F*** yourself....
Thats how I took it. DAFT!!!!
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Oh well, how HORRIBLE it is to be caught spending time with your child! It's the end of the world!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Your H is so dumb. I can't imagine how most of these WASs get through a day without having a breakdown lol. He did create this mess, and now he gets to stew in it for a while! Lol.
((((((BIG HUGS to you and your kids))))))
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
