Quote: umm....isn't there also the alternative of testosterone injections?
I don't think I need any testosterone...and honestly I don't think h does either...he works hard all day...and when he gets home he usually continues to work hard in the yard...it is not very often that you'd find my h just sitting around..there is no doubt he's manly...plus...it would be extremely difficult to get him to consider such a treatment when he doesn't seem to think "it's" a problem...his answer is..."that's just the way I am" "I've always had dry spells" etc etc etc....
the truly crappy part of the whole thing is that I am expected to understand "the way he is" and accept it...and he doesn't seem to feel any need to understand "how I am" and accomodate me. ie. during both pregnancies starting very early on..h lost all interest in sexual contact but my interest only went through the roof...but because it was something that was just "taboo" for him...I had to go without...no fair!!
I think I'm starting to reach a point where I am loosing interest myself...just getting tired of having a desire that I cannot act upon...so that desire is diminishing to the point where I almost sit and hope that h doesn't initiate.
it's not worth talking about because h I'm sure if I mentioned something at this point (being almost two weeks) h would say.."I wanted to the other night but didn't want to bother you because of your eye" that's all fine and dandy but how about letting me decide if my eye is a determining factor in if I wish to be physical with you or not.
