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(((((Handsome))))

Just stopping by. All the cleaning plans sound great! Where's my picture? I love the idea of the new clothes- wish I could come shopping with you. I'd make sure you got lots of new.....











......socks! ;\)

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Hey Jeff, good idea about the files. I am so proud of you. Now come on, admit it, its starting to feel pretty good cleaning up that room, isnt it.

Try to make sure the desk surface doesnt become overrun. Maybe you could buy some bins for the train stuff. Keep it going, my friend.

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Hey Jeff

I go away for a weekend and look what happens!

Sounds like you've made excellent headway on the room. I think listening is the way forward with regards to the school stuff, until you can get from her exactly what she wants then listening is good. Make sure you are there and seem attentive otherwise she may think your not interested.

Thanks for your help last night \:\)


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when you are done, can you please stop by my house too?
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Hey Jeff, wow, you are goind great! And its not just for her is it, sounds like you are really getting into reorganising your space. I am rubbish at housework too (I always had bf's that were houseproud and did more of it!) but I spring cleaned my house the other day and I did feel better for it - it was more relaxing once its all clean and tidy and theres no trodden in poppadoms on the carpet !!! Only kidding ;\)

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Hey Jeff

Good going on re-doing your room. I keep getting the urge to go out and buy all new bedding and just changing it up without saying a word about it...

Organization does NOT come easily to me, but I feel so much calmer when the house is not in total chaos...

And I relate on the school thing. I was one of the smartest couple of kids in my class. But I didn't ask the teacher for more to do, I just always, always, always had a book with me. Always read, even on 5 minute car rides to town....

Thinkin of ya. Did you get some new.....socks??


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(((((Ali)))))(((((BobbiJo)))))

I am making progress on the room. Slowly, but I can see the difference. I hope to move all the "stuff" off of the desk tonight, and start sorting it. I HATE it! Just so you know! I usually can find things in piles, organizing is a pain!

I always had a book at school! I usually paid enough attention to answer if the teacher called on me, though I think they eventually figured out to just leave me alone!

The socks I'm wearing right now have a hole in them! And I need a new belt, at the very least! But I hate clothes shopping almost as much as I hate organizing!

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I hate organising and cleaning too (((((Jeff))))). But sometimes you gotta do it \:\)

Have you ever shopped by Amazon.com for clothes? I've gotten quite good at it (some of the clothes I like is sooo expensive down here). They have great sales too and you don't have to go to a store. Also Zappos has great shoes (free shipping and free returns).


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Oooh Jeff.. that's quite risque wearing socks with holes in them!! Letting the world have a sneak peak at the toes beneath the socks.. your such a tease!!!!

Good work on operation "room declutter"! You may hate it now but you'll like it afterward. I didn't think my house was that cluttered but in preparing to sell I really did a thorough sort and cleanse and I am AMAZED at how much more room I have.. the house looks much bigger. You'll likely feel the same way about your bedroom.

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((((Jeff)))) good work on all of the cleaning. Keep up the good work.


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