Very interesting question and discussion. Thanks Brian.
I, too, wonder if this is a trend. If Fran's on board, that's three of us...any other HD (high desire/sex drive) women who were cheated on by LD (low drive) men?
It IS very frustrating, and baffling. I HEAR you LL, I can't tell you how astounded I was to learn that CJ had had an A (and I KNOW it was physical ). I was the one who had actually one time said "Well if we're not going to get counselling or do something about our sex-life, I may have to resort to alternatives" I meant toys and porn ...but HE didn't know that! I could have meant an A. He never asked. Of COURSE nothing improved.
Funny, LL, but I keep track too. It's rather rare so I like to put a little heart in my daily minder.
Two weeks sounds like something I could SETTLE for...we're still talking in months here...well not if you count touching.
Ha ha ha...just checked my own memory out and it's only been a week or so here, too!!! Oh, my...memory isn't all that reliable, is it!
So, LL, you've done the patience thing forever, 180's in order????
Wonder how your H (or CJ for that matter) would respond if we sat them down with a drink, and calmly suggested that we seek physical pleasure elsewhere while keeping all else that was good in our M's? You know like some married men do?
Oh, geez, can you see the expressions???
Okay, I'd better stop, I'm really not helping, am I?
). I was the one who had actually one time said "Well if we're not going to get counselling or do something about our sex-life, I may have to resort to alternatives" I meant toys and porn 
...but HE didn't know that! I could have meant an A. He never asked. Of COURSE nothing improved.
