Hi LL I can sympathise with your HD/LD situation with your H. My theory on Brian's question is that we somehow chase away the LD guy because having the woman persue them makes them feel less of a man. I think most men whether High or Low would like to be the one to chase and then automatically get compliance from the woman of course!
Now I have young kids my libido has taken a bit of a dive and the situation has almost been reversed but I spent my early 30s (female sexual peak time) VERY frustrated with my LD man. NOTHING I did seemed to work.
Maybe the answer is to quit chasing - at all. Have you read grislen's thread. He is doing a 180 on physical touch and initiation right now and it seems to be working for him.
Oh BTW you are my demi-god too - LOL
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
