Still waiting on wife

[HHIF]

Yes she will talk about it,but just says she doesn't have those kind of feelings for me right now,just wants to work on the friendship.

I have found out through all of this that she has felt controlled and smothered by me for quite awhile but kept things in until she couldn't take it anymore and we seperated.That's when I finally woke up and relized that I had let my fears hurt my wife and our marriage.

I am working hard on myself and I know she has noticed,I just have to continue to grow and be patient with her.

I do believe we will get it figured out,I know she needs time to heal and see that I am not the same man that made her ready to end our marriage.

She did put the D on hold and asked me to come back home and we have gotten closer since then,patience is hard but I know it's what's required.

I haven't read any of the books you mentioned,I do have DR and it helped allot while we were seperated.