Quote:

The typical thing we hear is that men have A's for sex and women have A's to get emotional needs met. If that's so (and I generally agree with it), then why do there seem to be so many cases like yours?


well brian,

all I can say is I dunno? especially since h at this point still claims it never to have gotten to a pa...it just never happened (sometimes I believe and sometimes well I just put myself in that position and say there's no way I'd leave or lie if I weren't getting any)

heck even ow still denies "LL, I know you'll never believe us, but it just wasn't like that, anyone can have a physical relationship" or "you get a divorce if you're going to be physical" gee I wonder if asking your h for a d is enough to remove that clause?

strange thing is when h first moved out...he initiated sex at least three times before deciding it wasn't fair to me.

and when he first started to come back to me...sheesh he couldn't get enough...but that is typical of a ld person...to be overboard and then crash to almost nothing...I will admit though things are better than they used to be before all this he could go months with nothing..now the longest seems to be a couple of weeks...right now we're at 2 weeks maybe I'll have something to post about in the morning.

but I would tend to agree...at least in my case..and yes I'll shamefully admit to having said it outload more than a few times...I'm the one who should have been having the a!! but I digress.

LL