Not to change the subject (but I guess I am), but in my perusings on these boards, I've noticed what I think is an unusually high percentage of cases like yours and Shiynbears in which the LD husband betrays the attractive HD wife. I gotta say, I just don't get it. It would seem much more understandable if there were lots of HD husbands betraying LD wives (no less wrong, but more understandable, in the classic "I wasn't getting any at home" vein) . For me (I guess I would consider myself mid or high desire), I always feel more loved and connected to my W when we're intimate, so I have an overall sense of being loved and connected when we're intimate often and regularly. Like you, I get frustrated when intimacy doesn't occur, and when it gets very irregular, I start to feel unloved and unloving.
The typical thing we hear is that men have A's for sex and women have A's to get emotional needs met. If that's so (and I generally agree with it), then why do there seem to be so many cases like yours?
I don't have any answers, or even any good guesses as to why. Any thoughts? It's possible that I'm way off base and that this LD-husbands-betraying-HD-wives trend doesn't even exist. Just seems to be something I've noticed.
