Thanks everyone, Yes, I am definitely reaching a point that I know I have to get tough and divorce him. It's always about my faults, he's yet to to really admit that he did anything wrong. When he half way admits that he is at fault, he always says "Two wrongs don't make a right". He said he thought I would always throw her up in his face. I told him until she no longer worked for him it would be hard not to. I told him recently we needed to get out of this limbo, if he wanted to a divorce let's do it. He still believes I have a lot more changing to do than he does. I don't think he believes he needs to change in any way. Until he realizes this, it is a dead end. I honestly don't see him realizing it.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
