Hubby came home this morning and told me that he had thought a lot about what I had emailed him. He would like to start paying the bills so I do not have to handle all the paperwork since I do that at work all day. I was both surprised and hesitant. The last time he paid the bills it lasted about 1 month. He paid 3 of them late so I took them back. He also told me that he did not speak to the OW last night or for the previous few weeks. I am glad to hear that but really wish he would find another place of employment. I am sick of worrying every night he is at work.
I want to forgive him and work through this but feel like I am running out of time. He said for the 4th time in the last nine months...I am going to work on us and try really hard. How many times should I hear it before I believe it?


M:38
H:42
T:20 M:19
D:18 S:17
MLC: Sometime in 2007
OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07
OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009
Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009
D final: 07/09/11