Daisy,

I think our last posts crossed paths. You HAVE to act calm. Pretend that his feelings have nothing to do with you. In all reality they probably don't!

Can you find something to do for the next 30 minutes or so that takes you away from your H? Anything, like doing your hair or putting on makeup or going on a walk? I think you can get past this moment. Just act as-if what he is doing is his issue and not yours. You are SO lucky that he is even at your house. Focus on this and I am sure things will improve,

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!