New Thread-Husband Moved in With OW(T2L)

[hope3343]

marisol, just read your last post. My suggestions (pretty funny since I have been a horrible DBer these last days).
First all the talk about the OW -- did you see his response - never brought her up once. I think that is where DBing has it strong points. If you keep bringing up OW it only drives them away quicker. I see that with my own H.
You spent way to many paragraphs second guessing what your H thought and mindreading for him. This is exactly what they do not want. Because we keep doing that we are not communicating with them and listening to what they are saying. Communication is a big issue with the breakdown of our Rs.
Keep these truth darts to a few paragraphs and get to the point. I know my H loses interest in reading anything past one page.
Do you see H's e-mail -- you gave him cause by telling him he needs organization and order...and now he is using it against you by trying to go forward with a D.
Maybe at this point you should do a 180. No contact unless he contacts you. Step away and let him look at the OW for what she is and then give him a chance for reflection. Don't tell him just be not available, which is the hardest thing for all of us to do.
This is a support group and we are supporting...

Shouts out to twinhope and JGrind????? where are you. how is everything going? Let me know you are ok.