Hi My Lady, Life is full of surprises. Bad ones and thank God good ones too. And we do get a couple of "second chances". Some of us miss them all (my xH, your H probably-hopefully not). While they are deciding how stupid they will act, we owe it to ourselves to respect us and our dreams and go after them. And there are always more ways than one to get to your dreams. Hang in there. Life is exciting as W2G says. You dont need to decide on anything now. Take it slow. Maybe your DAM will sniff the change and who knows what may happen? Love K
Funny he emailed you as late as possible...thereby telling you, without communicating it, that he doesnt want to get into convo by email. My ex used to do that.. email me at 5.15 often.
But hey, thats great news that he said he would phone you and come for dinner, with friends! Thats a great DB opportunity isnt it. It does make me wonder what on earth aub must think of all this, him going out for dinner with you..unless he lies to her, who knows.
Hope you enjoyed the choir! So great you're doing that. Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
((((Michelle))))) Yes, looks like we were right- virtual coffee?
((((Sunshine)))) I know what you mean- no hurry on any decisions. Maybe H will sense a difference and behave differently. I won't assume anything, but will just carry on having fun!
((((Ali)))) Are you OK? You sound not your usual self. I'll come and visit in a bit. I think H might have e-mailed late as a result of being busy as opposed to him not wanting to exchange e-mails..... otherwise he could have just texted or not bothered to contact me until tomorrow at all! It WILL be interesting to see what happens tomorrow though, and a bit odd. Tomorrow was originally going to be me, CEO and Austin- the working out what CEO is thinking night!
Had a nice conversation with CEO before leaving work today. Just about work, but it was really nice to talk. He checked me out- a head to toe look as we were talking, but I caught him and he stopped doing it. Funny. Prior to that Austin and I had been talking and he came over to see what we were doing. He's travelling for a couple of days now. Maybe he'll miss me We'll see!
Meanwhile, I need to decide on an outfit for tomorrow. I'm thinking of going with a short skirt and top as he seemed to like that last time.
how perceptive of you. No, not very ok, thanks for checking me out if you do! I havent been checked out for a while! Love that CEO wants to muscle in on your girl chats at work and get a piece of the action...it must be dreary being a CEO, having to have all that resonsibility and be mr boss person all day long!
Meanwhile, I need to decide on an outfit for tomorrow. I'm thinking of going with a short skirt and top as he seemed to like that last time.
Foxy lady!
Just an observation, drawing on my own sitch, but I find it interesting that your h will go out with you and other people. Mine won't. You have obviously done a great job at making him feel comfortable. I would give myself a pat on the back if I were you
Can I just state for the record that I am terribly sorry I missed the chance to meet your CEO (and his bathroom) before you got him deep into your web? Darn!! My timing ALWAYS sucks!! Love S
((((Julia))))) It's a little odd isn't it? Although I don't think he sees himself as my H when he sees me with other people at all. All a bit odd. I can't wait to let you guys know how it goes tomorrow!
((((Sunshine)))) I think it's a good thing he didn't get to meet you before I realised what was in front of me- you'd have captivated him and I'd never have had a chance! He has very big hands, you know. Always a good thing to see!
You knew that! How could he resist a beauty with great personality like you? Especially when you flash that smile at him. No doubt he would have started telling you about his power shower
We'll see!