This sounds really frustrating, but please try to keep in mind that he DID come up today. Can you try to use some of your DB skills maybe and act "as-if"? Maybe he is just having a bad day, and somehow feeling pressured.
can you ignore his negative comments and use this as a 180 opportunity? I know, easier said than done, but my guess is that if you were calm throughout his "tantrum", things would improve...
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
