Quote: This is extremely fustrating because a little attention and reinforcement of your place in his life is not alot to ask for, but asking just sets him off.
it certainly is frustrating, especially since the advice most people seem to want to offer is to get your own life, do your own thing, keep yourself busy with things that you want to do etc etc etc. so inother words forget about having a r? forget about sharing a life with someone and instead be happy that I share a house with them?????
what the people that give that advice don't realize is that it makes no difference what I'm doing. H seems happy and content if I'm otherwise entertained, months could go by (or more) without us going anywhere or doing anything other then typical daily living and he would not complain, he would not say "hey we haven't spent any time together lately, let's go out."
I'm tired of accomodating him.
when he came home there were some things I wanted and stated clearly...some have occured but the rest seem to have just gone over his head, been excused away.
