Refuse To Lose, Part XI: Clock is Ticking

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Rob... I agree with KLM and anyway, even if it was from you, its not your 'fault' and you are not to blame.. my ex has cold sores, becuase his Mum kissed him as a child, but you dont always know when one is coming on right, so sometimes it can already be too late. Its just unfortunate, its no big deal!! She is hellbent at getting even with you in her mind, but I do think alot of it is transference from her father.

Also, I dont have kids, but she seems to fall apart at the slightest knock to Grace.. perhaps that is some of her own guilt.. but it easier to get upset and angry at some other minor 'hurt' to her D than look at the real hurt she is inflicting of separating her from her father.

You are a nice guy and as others have said, you are a well put together man in your photos! We are all learning tough lessons, but one day, someone will benefit enormously from that. I'm betting her R with random office complex guy isnt going to turn out so successfully. Not that I wish ill on your W, but she just isnt doing the work on herself, clearly, else she wouldnt still be raging at you.

Ali xxx