Hey Where! You sound good.. but I can imagine how frustrating it is that the house wont sell. But he's still happy to sell it though, right? Well done on getting your job!!! At least it is something that fits around D3s day by the sound of it, which is great and I was mightily impressed you floated the idea of a raise at the outset, good for you.. you have to know your worth.

I love T's idea.. my ex was happy to stay overnight with me at a friends house, but totally against staying at our house. He only ever said this once.. we were about to sleep on a coach somewhere when I said about going to mine and his response was he was scared to and didnt want to mess me around.

So I guess it could be loaded with meaning and he wont allow himself to take that step. You are being amazingly patient thought, surely you will be rewarded, it continues to go in an upward trajectory from what I can see. Glad you back with us!

Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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