Treese - I've been off reading, reading, reading on other sites. I am learning more at marriagebuilders and 40/60. If these sites get edited out, TM me, and I'll send them on. I am convinced and am slowly getting my mind to the place where we just have to let them go. Write them off. They are gone. I think we need to move forward, do what is best for us---for our health and sanity. What they have done to us, what your H has done to YOU and your FAMILY is wrong. Detachment is the key. Live for yourself now----you and the kids only. If your H comes around, the fog lifts, and he sees the light you will be there---happy and healthy. If we continue like this, if you continue to let him beat you down, then when he sees the light there will be nothing left of YOU and how could he return???
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
