Hi My Lady, Life is full of surprises. Bad ones and thank God good ones too. And we do get a couple of "second chances". Some of us miss them all (my xH, your H probably-hopefully not). While they are deciding how stupid they will act, we owe it to ourselves to respect us and our dreams and go after them. And there are always more ways than one to get to your dreams. Hang in there. Life is exciting as W2G says. You dont need to decide on anything now. Take it slow. Maybe your DAM will sniff the change and who knows what may happen? Love K