Your H sounds thick as a doorpost about this issue. Talk about mixed signals!...in most other aspects it's VERY clear that he's IN this M.
Now, you say that you "mentioned it" several times. I hate to harp on this, but it IS an issue for you, thus deserves some thought. Exactly what did you say to him, and when was the last time it came up??
Can you remember? If you can, try to recount the conversations here...memory can be revisionist, so try to be very true to the event....maybe some of us will be able to point out (Guys?? ) where he might have read in some ambiguity!
Or, maybe as KAW mentioned in an earlier post, to I can't remember who, perhaps your desire for this is percieved as somehow controlling? Even on an unconscious level?
I'm probably off base here, because I've heard a lot of your side on this, and you have a firm case!! Have you tried this one: "H, if you were to ask me to put my rings back on, it would help me feel that we're really in this M together and moving forward"
I just LOVED this idea when I read it...it's giving THEM the choice...I plan to do more of this myself, even with the "little stuff".
) where he might have read in some ambiguity!
