Quote: I know I am going to get beat up, but you keep assuming H can figure this stuff out. We are clueless most of the time. You discussions sound like bitch sessions to him. So he is going to be defensive. I myself would be walking on eggshells with you, waiting for the next "discussion"
This saying applies "if what you are doing is not working try something else." So try something else.
ok poey so what would you suggest for something else??????
Quote: On the ring thing, come right out and ask him to place the rings on your finger. This one is really dumb to be hung up on.
he knows where they are...I've cleaned them several times in the past year (it has been over a year since I took them off last march). they are in the cabinet that he keeps his vitamins in..he takes out a vitamin every night to have in the am...they are on the top of a nail polish bottle...he will simply move the vitamins to another shelf to avoid looking at them (my assumption). I've asked enough times, mentioned it enough times...I give up...when he's ready he will make mention of it or maybe he wont.
