I looked up and saw her looking at me last night at work,
That is what she is doing.. watching you, whether you notice her looking or not.
Seeing if these changes you are making/have made are 'for real'.
You have a great opportunity that many LBS would love to have... you can have your wife watch you grow & become the man you want to be on a daily basis!!
Keep doing what you are doing that is true to you. Live your life as if, GAL, make the changes you would make for you regardless of if she stays in your life or not.
Because no matter where you go, there you are.
We notice, we watch, we need A LOT of reassurance that these quickie changes are the real deal, not just a cosmetic botox treatment that wears off in 3 months. Consistent, regular positive behaviour changes.
Good luck to you Peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.
