Quote: Am wondering if you've thought about putting your rings on without him asking. thought about it but don't want to put them back on myself only to regret it later, especially since he knows I am waiting for him to simply ask.
I think I remember you saying that you were waiting for him to ask, but I'm wondering if he's thinking he doesn't have the right to ask? if he doesn't have a right to ask me to wear my wedding rings then he doesn't have the right to sleep in my bed, let me do his laundry, live in this house, refer to me as his wife etc etc etc.
this one is going to be a stickler and I'm sorry but I have to stick to it...I sent myself flowers after h's return because despite the fact that I had mentioned it he never acted so I did it myself, I asked that he make suggestions for us to go out and that hasn't happend but once or twice in the almost year that he's been back so I don't want to cave on this one as well...I don't think I'm asking for much...man ask your w to be your wife...ask your wife to proudly wear the rings you put on her finger the day you married her...we'll see....perhaps if nothing happens by our anniversary (sept) I will make arraingments with a priest to have vows renewed and then I will put them back on myself (as long as he's willing to go trough with it) that would be the only way I would put them back on myself.
