Sorry - I haven't posted in a while... Maybe it's because I am not in desperation mode as I was before..

I have finally started to get back to the Gym... I did not go once int the time W was with my W (7 years together)... It was always spending time with her or doing a quicker workout from home.

Now I am trying to GAL... I seems really strange - It is like I am living a double personality...

One day, one weekend, etc - I am a dedicated 100% Dad, thinking of things to do with my daughter, and only things with my daughter.

the next day, the next weekend, etc. - I am completely on my own, Single, and trying to think of things to do for myself.

It is so strange to experience this... I do not really like this dual lifestyle - but I guess there is nothing I can do about it.

Thanks for keeping your concerns for me.

I have a long weekend with my Daughter and mother - Thurs and Fri vacation days to go to the Finger Lakes - my mother has a canoe and use of a friend's cottage. Then home on Sat and Sun with my daughter - I'll have to think of things to do.


Me:40 / W:33 / D:3
T:7.5/M:4
D Day: 1/24/08
Legal Separated: 6/12/08
BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08
Suspect BF pre-dates D Day

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