BTW - How do you quote like that? Which key?

Friends to me means you spend time together doing things and talking.

You know these are 2 needs from the His Needs/Her Needs book. Time together a mans need & talking a womans need.

Strange how a month ago - when I asked my H if we could start chatting on the phone - he said - he would like that - never happened. Didn't realize it was really a Need I Had. Or on Saturday - when my H asked if I would help him paint - time spent Doing things - is his need.

Twilight zone time ..... do do...


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)