Thanks Sep. I've been thinking about it and I need to GAL before I start dating again. I mean some long term GALing.
I'm not crazy at all about the way she is being secretive about things. That's not what I want it a friendship or a relationship. I'm not sure why she would think that anybody would. I doubt that she does, but I think that she thinks she's fooling me when she does it. I'm not sure how to bring it up either, because that always turns into me having trust issues from my ex-wife cheating on me. The funny thing is, I don't, if there's no reason to be untrusting. Recently is the first time I've let it be known that I wasn't feeling very trusting with her in the five years we've been together.
Oh well. I guess my next battle is explaining myself when I don't want to go out with her and let her drag me along. She has resumes out all around the country again, and is planning on moving if she finds a job. She will get mad, and ask about it...so that's going to be fun.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.