Hi Saffie, I know that he took OW out when I was out of state visiting my family, A friend saw him in the next town over out to dinner with OW and then I saw the charges on his cc bills for dinner and a club. I realized who it was a few days later because I was driving by the building that this OW worked at after having an argument with H, and there he was in the parking lot with her and soon as I saw the body language it all clicked together. He has now bought a black berry (already has one for business) and has hidden it in his car. I think the reason is he got nervous because he had to discipline one of his employees for kissing someone's hand and the guy almost got fired. Imagining disciplining one of your employees while you are having an A with one of your other workers? I am having such a difficult time these past few days and not using the DB principals and falling back on my old nagging ways. NOT EFFECTIVE. I have to wait for my H to come to his senses on his own, even with him moving out at the end of the month. Your right the bloom was off the rose after 18 months of an A. It probably just felt like another bad marriage by then...(little humor). So your H never really moved out. I have much work to do and I am hoping that I will have an end result like yours. You even renewed your vows. How blessed is that. thanks
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
