Quoting lostlove: my rants are an outpouring of frustration at the moment and they help to releive some of the pent up thoughts
Yea, but I've notice a trend where these rants use to come 2-3 times a week ... then once a week ... a week or two would pass without one ... now maybe once a month ... uhmmm ... naw ... will leave that one alone!
Glad to hear that is, all it was tho ... a rant, a vent, a release, better than the alternative!
So he is now apologizing quite bit for his behavior of late. Sounds like a growth spurt to me. After a while, he will begin to notice how much he is doing it and then perhaps start to change his behavior in ways to avoid the apologies. This personal growth stuff to become a better person doesn't come all at once and sometimes learned the "hard" way. It takes a lot of patience on the part of the learned to wait for less-knowing peers to get it.
