One more VERY tiny update but one that is making me smile in a big way so worth sharing. I know everyone on here thinks I am too tied into what my H does/doesn't do. True, I admit I am, but I still think I am learning a lot about myself through the process :). Just have to share that a few minutes ago he sent me a link to a news article that he thought I'd like. SUCH a baby step sure, but remember that this is coming from a man who 6 weeks ago talked like a robot, said he was dead inside, and that he had no opinion on seeing me/not seeing me. I know things could flip tomorrow, but today he:
Called me a nickname Sent me a link to a news article (showing interest in me) Asked how I was doing Asked how my job was going (never did this, really EVER) Apologized for being mean yesterday Said he was giving up yoga and painting to focus on his school (now I know this one sounds like a negative but to me it shows that he might be living a little bit less in his head, and I see this as a good thing) Joked around with me about the pets Used my personal credit card for something (I see this as positive, sharing finances)
Anyway I am trying not to place TOO much stock in this because our alien Hs can turn on a dime, but I feel like my DBing just MIGHT be starting to pay off...
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!