My toe is good. The nail is a little red, like underneath, burst blood vessel? Who knows.
I'm excited to see him! I think he might be a little nervous about today because after last session we had that major argument. So today he might be a little more hesitant but he should be awake soon and ready to go.
In counseling today I am going to try and listen a lot. I have been pretty good at letting my husband do the talking but last session I think I did too much and when the counselor was talking about my list of "boundaries" he said to my husband "not to pick on you here but I wouldn't call this a list of boundaries I would just call this a list of things that make marriages work" and then he said there was a red flag next to the item about not spending one on one time with other women. So I think maybe that clamed my hubby up a little. Which is also why I think individual sessions from this point on will help as he can really tackle those issues with my hubby and he can say what he wants to without worrying about me bringing it up later. In my individual sessions I need to focus on not having expectations, not nagging/bitching, and learning how to deal with any/all anger issues.
