In this long saga - my H & I still have to get back to the friends stage. So we are pretty far apart already..... (Coach - is this kinda how you are feeling??)
Yes, I want to keep the ball rolling (expectations) and I don't like the deadtime. Either tell me it's done or let's get working. So it's hard to be prepared for both scenarios, very emotionally draining. Next thread title idea - "Stuck in the Middle with You." Do you remember the chorus? Friends to me means you spend time together doing things and talking. I don't like not having input because it effects me. So yes detaching is how you cope. Remember this won't last forever. So where's that joke you owe me? Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.