Yikes, that is a bit harsh for my southern sensibilities. I take a differing perspective. H and MIL are the golden people who do what they want, and they can do no wrong. Therefore everyone around them wrongs them, not the other way around. I know from late-night conversations that Yoyo has, in her sweet southern way, pointed out all of those little inconsistencies to H before. And sitting on the bleachers with friends what not the place to repeat it.
Theo, always keep in mind this man is a hunter and owns guns. It does no good to keep antagonizing him.