Honestly, I am so busy at work most of the time it doesn't effect me. But, keep in mind I have been doing this almost a year.

When it first happened, I was at a different job, small law office. They all knew what was going on, so it wasn't uncommon for me to start just crying at my desk. Every day at 3:30 I would go out to my car to cry for about fifteen minutes, and they all understood, so it was okay.

Now, if I need to cry, and yes I do still sometimes, I go in the bathroom. I cry, wash my face, and blame allergy season...

Suggestion: don't try to stifle it. Take a moment, two, ten if you need to catch your breath. If you don't grieve, you can't heal.

Last edited by LolaL; 09/16/08 03:19 PM.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..