Hi everybody! How is everyone? T2L its been a while since we have heard from ya!!

Yesterday was interesting for me. I told him how much his cell phone bill was and he was shocked. Then he asks if he wanted a check or cash and I told him he can pay for it himself online. Goes to show how much he knows... His response was "I guess I'm still technically challenged." My response was "I'm sure you can get someone to help you." I also mention that I am planning on having our D see a C and that he should be a part of that. He says to let him know. Then he later asks me if I got the D papers. I tell him no and left it at that. I wanted to say what was the hurry but I bit my tounge.

I tell him later on that he has mail from his tax accountant and from a law firm. He says he would come by this week to pick them up but he needed to get a car first. I asked him how that was going and his response was "not good! I bet that makes you happy!" and my response was "having the truck does not make me happy. I can mail the letters to you if you want." and then he responded "ok...mail them". So, its been about 3 weeks since I have seen him.

I also find out that apparently him and 21 OW had a fight this past weekend. Looks like she went out drinking Saturday night and he stayed home. She did not respond to his texts. They must have gotten in an argument and she slapped him so he punched a hole in the wall. He was NEVER like that with me. Not ONCE did he ever get so angry that he would do such a thing. This makes me so worried that he is going down a very dark path. How can he want this kind of a R? How can he want to be with a woman like her? It just blows my mind.

Any thoughts?


Me35/H35
D16/SS14
M-1yr/known H 18yrs
1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35
2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21
Moved out 8/21/08
H filed D on 9/9/08

God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.