Hi there!

I'm so sorry that it seems as if I've abandoned my thread. It's just been really busy and yep, I still haven't gotten internet hooked up at home.

I was out of town on Friday to go visit my FIL. He's doing a lot better and might get out of the hospital as early as today. He'll have to get a stint put in for his heart problems but we'll see when they decide to do that. He didn't know we were coming down so he was surprised to see us....very excited to see D4 and she was excited to see her Papa. She did a great job at the hospital. We explained what all the tubes and IV's were for and she did well. As long as you explain things to her, she's fine.

H and I have decided to give it another try. We're spending a lot more time together and getting along very well. I have talked about OW briefly and I know that she's contacted him, but I haven't seen any contact from him to her. My BIL told me that he and H had a talk about OW when we were there over Labor Day. BIL didn't say much about what they talked about other than he got the impression that H knew it would never have worked and that he still loved us and wanted his family. Things change though, so I'm taking it one day at a time. I'm hoping that we can evenutally get into Retro. I think it would do wonders for us. We are talking a lot more about everything, so that's been good for us. There's so much work that has to be done between the two of us, but we're going to see if it can be done.

H goes to court today to see if he can get his license back. He goes next week to his chemical dependency assessment. We've talked about that too. I saw the lists of questions that he has to answer for his assessment. I hope that he's honest with his answers and that he can get some help.

Work has been busy for me too. There are a lot of changes going on around here.....departments consolidating, changes with an aquisition our company made....etc. It makes things busy for me but thankfully I still have my job. Others will either have to go into other departments or find new jobs within the next 10 months. Thankfully our company is giving everyone as much time as possible to decide what they want to do.

D4 is wonderful. She has her 2nd computer class today. She loves it! I'm amazed at how her mind works, the questions she asks...etc.

Yoyo, lwb & starting....thanks for checking on me. I'll email soon. Again, sorry for the delay in getting on here. I need to start checking on more people, as everyone does with me.

Have a great day!

-Sue


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day