Well, you know your issues, back off her and work on them, for you, don't make it obvious to her either. Chekc the Do a 180 section here for ideas. In time, she will see you are trying to change and may take comfort in that.

Trust me on this tho, the more you push, the further she bolts.

Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11