nlt:

I know so many people mean well but they somehow feel it would be in your best interest if they introduced you to this person or that person, etc.

I think this happens to many of us--we have friends saying maybe you should date, etc.

Honestly, you need to heal, give yourself some time. Dating is not going to make a person whole again.

I have no doubt that you, like many others, know in your heart what you want to do.

Gosh, dating would be the last thing on my mind if I were divorced.

I know of people whose spouses have died and within months, they marry someone else. I always wonder how they can do that.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19