Quote: h pays the bills, ...then to a filing cabinet at his office...the only way I'd be able to see them ..take his keys ..sneak... aint worth my trouble. Then tell him, it would make you feel better, to see the bill
Quote: "Have you considered using the anger letter from Mars/Venus"
"no point! letting h know in any terms that I am not satisfied with anything is just recipie for disaster and ya know what? I'd rather just act like all is well...if by now he is still to dumb to figure it out well then f him."
I disagree, you say he looked at your threads on this BB, and said he would not look agin, he was too overwhelm to read them.
But using the anger letter would be small doses, I feel he could handle that better than your brooding. You think he ain't getting it, your right, he needs constant directions till it becomes habit.
