Hate to hear you are going through BS with your H. Don't worry I am right there with you. Your H, my H and a few other H's on the board have some real mental issues. I can say that now that I am a psych nurse! It's nuts that he thinks you all should ride together. I would not do it! My H has made very similar requests. We have ML countless times in the last few months (more than in the last few months than when we were living together) and this selifish fool will finish the act and then ask me a few breaths later "so are you going to sign off on the paperwork and not get a lawyer?" I want to say "did you really think your performance was that outstanding I was going to change my mind?" I actually think it's comical now because no matter how much we sleep together he is not waivering on divorce and I am not waivering on what I am asking. I digress, but my point is stand your ground. If your H sees the slightest kindness in you he will jump all over it and use it in his favor. He is very immature and juvenille and much like with a child and a puppy you have to set very clear boundaries and limits. Also BS just like SO2 said you don't have to agree to anything that makes you uncomfortable. Also, as it pertains to child support why aren't you getting that? My H has been good about paying, but if he did not even though we are married I could still go to court and ask for it. Make sure you bring that up. It's hard enough being a single mom, but being a single mom without financial support is even harder.
Very well put! Don't confuse his off and on kindness as anything but manipulation at this point. He may be trying to be that way to get you to do what he wants. There might be a shred of sincerity there, but I wouldn't buy it yet. Not when it comes to your daughter.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
