Hi glam and Sir-
THE D IS DISMISSED!!! I met my H for lunch yesterday and he told me that he didn't appear at court yesterday so the D was dismissed. I confirmed it online this morning.

I agree that ultimatums and pressure don't usually work but sometimes it is necessary to try different things. Six months ago I told my H that he could either go to C with me or we needed to through with the D. He agreed to go to the C and it seems to be helping. So IMO sometimes a small amount pressure at the right time can help things along. As far as the comment about him moving back, I believe I did it in a very non-pressuring way and he does need to start thinking about it. We had C last night and the C even told him somethings he would like to see before he moves back in with me. I told my H and the C that I can't make it our usual Monday appointment (my D has a game). My H said he would go on his own. \:\)

After C, my H came back to the house and I made dinner. We watched a some TV and cuddled a little. We made plans for Thursday and Saturday. We talked a little about taking a trip together sometime in the future.

It was a good day yesterday. I am feeling like there is progress. I hope it continues.