I think the life insurance is a good idea. My older kids dad and I put that in place when we divorced years ago. But that was a different kind of divorce too. We have never had any real issues or feelings like we do now. I need to bring that up to H too. He won't like it (well his part anyway).
Hope your Tuesday is going better.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!