Poe you had some really good advice there. But I, like LL see no pattern, in fact since CJ has been "working" on the attention, physical side of things (a MAJOR love tank for me) we've made love...oh, a total of 2 times? I'm talking since MARCH!!!!
AS for the quickies....bring 'em on! ...I just find no end to the irony that I have a somewhat "masculinized brain" (find porn a big turn on, fantasize visuals, take very little time to warm up, can "get there" in minutes, time of day...no dif..lights on, all the better)...while in an M with a guy who seems to have little sex drive and even less inclination to be physical with me! HE's the one who says he "can't feel that way" if we're not getting along....(the reason for the dirth of sex pre OW) but we HAVE been getting along...and still nothing, nada, zip!!!!
Crap!
Well at least he's making dinner right now, and I have a glass of wine. Could be worse!
...I just find no end to the irony that I have a somewhat "masculinized brain" (find porn a big turn on, fantasize visuals, take very little time to warm up, can "get there" in minutes, time of day...no dif..lights on, all the better)...while in an M with a guy who seems to have little sex drive and even less inclination to be physical with me! HE's the one who says he "can't feel that way" if we're not getting along....(the reason for the dirth of sex pre OW) but we HAVE been getting along...and still nothing, nada, zip!!!!
