Quote: Are you sure, maybe keep a diary of him, for at least a month. Then check it for your corelation.
really not worth it, there is no correlation. no connection to what I wear, time of day, day of week, time spent together (dates or otherwise) time of year, place, etc etc....there really is no correleation to anything...it's all random and that is what is most frustrating about it...could be every night for a week...could be nothing for a few weeks.
tired of focussing any engery on thinking about it anymore...I know what I am and know that it has nothing to do with me. it is h's issue and until he realizes how much of a problem it actually creates he will do nothing about it and heck even if he does realize the problems it creates all he can seem to do is appologize...sometimes I think I married a woman. but then I know alot of women with higher drives than he's got. how many men would say no to a quickie? how many men would be to tired let their woman please them (I think you all know what I mean by that).
oh well.
I'll do my best to not let resentment build up...but in reading some of the threads in the ssm forum I know that a side effect of that is loosing the desire for him....then there'd be real trouble...but as I said it's not important enough to him to even have a conversation about it that produces some kind of solution so my only hope is that my drive doesn't get any higher...if I were a man I think I'd be walking around with a semi all day every day as is.
